About our community
Since its inception, Nehirim has has had a commitment to making its programs
accessible to, and filled with, students and 20-somethings. At the 2007 Queer
Shabbaton, for example, we had over thirty students attend from all over the
country. People come for different reasons, some for community, others for
spirituality, others simply tocelebrate being Jewish and Queer. We offer
a safe space for students to explore how they
want their spiritual and sexual/gender identity worlds to interact, and what
kind of Jewish world they want to live in. Nehirim students
span the spectrum of religious denomination and observance,
as well as sexual orientation and gender identification.
Forget the rainbow, this is one fancy smorgasbord!
Student Scholarships
A huge part of Nehirim’s mission is to support GLBTQ
Jewish students. At each retreat roughly 25 undergraduate
and graduate students are offered a scholarship to cut or
cover the costs of attendance. Students are invited to
fully participate in a cross-generational community,
and also enjoy a “students-only” meal and workshops that are geared towards issues that Jewish LGBTQ students are facing.
Please contact our outreach coordinator Zvi Bellin if you are interested in a student scholarship for
any of Nehirim’s programs.
Student Feedback
For me the Nehirim Shabbaton was...
"…a weekend where I could connect my Jewish mind and body,
where I could find a community of like-minded gay AND spiritual journeyers
where I could simply feel an authentic part of a vibrant community
For me the Nehirim Shabbaton was only the beginning....I'm already counting the days until the next Nehirim event, hoping for an even more spiritual (and perhaps scenic) landscape."
"…an excellent chance to meet people genuinely committed to Judaism, who also share a queer orientation with me. At other Jewish LGBT events, the emphasis is on the sexual orientation side, with much matchmaking and socializing going on. Nehirim on the other hand is much more content oriented and focuses on Judaism, which is beautiful and perfect for me because my religious beliefs and spirituality are important to me, and I am so happy that I have found a queer framework where Judaism is important to everyone else as well."
"…an opportunity to be surrounded by lots of cool queer Jewish types...and have that lovely feeling where everything feels so comfortable that you forget that such a configuration is unusual.....or hard to find. I also really enjoyed all the academic lectures - it was very cool to have an academic/political infusion to a weekend that in the past has been mostly spiritual/social. I appreciated having a mix of all four elements...."
"…a great opportunity to reconnect with friends, create new friendships, explore our journeys as LGBT Jews, and enter into a greater mindfulness through our learning and coming together in community. I appreciated the thoughtfulness that went into planning the weekend, ensuring that the array of activities and sessions reflected the diverse interests of our community."
Other Programs
In addition to providing student scholarships to retreats, Nehirim supports our student community in these additional ways:
The Shalshelet Elder/Youth Program.
Gay and lesbian youth rarely have gay and lesbian elders to mentor them.
Most of us are born into our religious and ethnic communities, but
rarely are gays and lesbians born into gay or lesbian families with
gay role models, teachers, and mentors. Worse, as these young adults
seek out mentors in the gay community, they are often justifiably
fearful of being objects of sexual predation. The Shalshelet program matches up gay and lesbian "youth" (loosely defined
as anyone under 30) with elders willing to mentor them. The program is supervised by Rabbi Jacob Staub and Zvi Bellin.
Please click here for more information.
Nehirim and NUJLS!. Nehirim is proud to work with NUJLS, the National Union of Jewish LGBTIQQ students, in a number
of ways. NUJLS staff regularly teaches at Nehirim events. Nehirim staff regularly teach at NUJLS events. We're in touch with
NUJLS regularly, sharing information and contacts, marketing events, and planning our work together. Visit
NUJLS' website to learn more about this great organization.
Internship opportunities. Nehirim loves interns! Each year we have 1-2 interns who do substantive work for our organization,
including programming, grant research, outreach, and many other ways. Click here to learn more.
Bring Nehirim to Campus. Finally, even if you can't come to Nehirim, Nehirim can come to you. Our staff and faculty regularly visit
college campuses, with lectures, services, programs, workshops, classes -- you name it. If you're looking for someone to lead a Pride Shabbat,
or for resources on queer Kabbalah, or for workshops that will help you build queer Jewish community in your campus,
send us an email to find out more.
We look forward to seeing you at a Nehirim event soon!